"Then a teacher of the law came to him and said, 'Teacher, I will follow you wherever you go'. Jesus replied, 'Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head'" (Matthew, 8: 19-20). These words are a clear indication of the type of leader Jesus wanted to be. Anyone with an eye on popularity and wishes to ride on public perception of what a leader should be would have quickly grabbed the opportunity to be the leader of a learned person. Instead, Jesus discouraged the teacher of the law by painting a desperate situation for those who would follow him! Some of Jesus' own people had advised him: "No one who wants to become a public figure acts in secret. Since you are doing these things, show yourself to the world!" (John, 7:4). This was a warning against the habit of Jesus not to publicize his miracles, rarely and reluctantly performed, as he was aware that the people would not correctly understand their import and significance. The Evangelist gives the reason for their advice thus: "For even his own brothers did not believe in him" (John, 7:5).
Now it is clear why Jesus dissuaded a potential follower from fulfilling his wish to follow him. Jesus, in effect, drove home the idea that appearances do not have any substance in them, as presented before us, although they may look attractive. It was expressed in the utter destitution a follower of Jesus might have to put up with compared to which the foxes and birds are well taken care of. Not only that, to lay one's head peacefully at least at the time of death need not be expected as he was going to do it on the cross! Who wants to follow Jesus, if this is the memorandum of understanding presented as a condition? Surely not that teacher of the law nor anyone of his ilk who counts on the external manifestations without the internal dispositions to support them.
What did Jesus mean by these shocking expressions of conditions in following him? He meant detachment or unattached attitude to the world as a whole as well as to the persons and things in the world. Remember he wanted us to leave behind our father, mother, wife, children etc. and our own selves to follow him (See the Post on 'Detachment'). Detachment does not mean that we should not live in houses surrounded by our family or that we should cut off all our relationships with people. On the contrary, the only commandment to all the people is to love God first and foremost as well as everyone as one loves oneself. Besides, Jesus' own example of living in houses and loving people with warmth and sincerity tells us how to correctly understand his words. The actual implementation of 'leaving one's own self behind' is an indication of the direction we have to take here in leaving behind the things, people and the world itself.
The requirement of detachment for a follower of Jesus took an unexpected turn in the case of another disciple of Jesus. "Another of the disciples said to him, 'Lord let me first go and bury my father'. And Jesus said to him, 'Follow me, and leave the dead to bury their own dead'" (Matthew, 8: 21-22). Burying the dead was one of the most sacred duties among the Jews and the disciple probably thought that his request would not be rejected. He got a shock of his life from Jesus with an answer by which he was totally bewildered! How can the dead bury their own dead? Jesus meant to tell him that there are enough people attached to the dead person to do this sacred duty who being attached to the world are dead to the enlightenment he received. Unless he were able to immediately follow his inner light due to which he wanted to follow Jesus, he might as well lose it to return to the world and its ways. Dilly-dallying with the graces we receive is not conducive to their effective fulfillment as our sincere co-operation is missing.
The urgency in leaving everything behind for the sake of the Kingdom of God is implied in the very nature of the Kingdom. It starts with our real self as the image and likeness of God corroborated and firmed up by the new life flowing from Jesus to be completed in the world to come. Unless we are prepared to completely reverse our outlook presently turned on to the world outside and return to our true self inside , we shall remain foreigners in the Kingdom of God!
Now it is clear why Jesus dissuaded a potential follower from fulfilling his wish to follow him. Jesus, in effect, drove home the idea that appearances do not have any substance in them, as presented before us, although they may look attractive. It was expressed in the utter destitution a follower of Jesus might have to put up with compared to which the foxes and birds are well taken care of. Not only that, to lay one's head peacefully at least at the time of death need not be expected as he was going to do it on the cross! Who wants to follow Jesus, if this is the memorandum of understanding presented as a condition? Surely not that teacher of the law nor anyone of his ilk who counts on the external manifestations without the internal dispositions to support them.
What did Jesus mean by these shocking expressions of conditions in following him? He meant detachment or unattached attitude to the world as a whole as well as to the persons and things in the world. Remember he wanted us to leave behind our father, mother, wife, children etc. and our own selves to follow him (See the Post on 'Detachment'). Detachment does not mean that we should not live in houses surrounded by our family or that we should cut off all our relationships with people. On the contrary, the only commandment to all the people is to love God first and foremost as well as everyone as one loves oneself. Besides, Jesus' own example of living in houses and loving people with warmth and sincerity tells us how to correctly understand his words. The actual implementation of 'leaving one's own self behind' is an indication of the direction we have to take here in leaving behind the things, people and the world itself.
The requirement of detachment for a follower of Jesus took an unexpected turn in the case of another disciple of Jesus. "Another of the disciples said to him, 'Lord let me first go and bury my father'. And Jesus said to him, 'Follow me, and leave the dead to bury their own dead'" (Matthew, 8: 21-22). Burying the dead was one of the most sacred duties among the Jews and the disciple probably thought that his request would not be rejected. He got a shock of his life from Jesus with an answer by which he was totally bewildered! How can the dead bury their own dead? Jesus meant to tell him that there are enough people attached to the dead person to do this sacred duty who being attached to the world are dead to the enlightenment he received. Unless he were able to immediately follow his inner light due to which he wanted to follow Jesus, he might as well lose it to return to the world and its ways. Dilly-dallying with the graces we receive is not conducive to their effective fulfillment as our sincere co-operation is missing.
The urgency in leaving everything behind for the sake of the Kingdom of God is implied in the very nature of the Kingdom. It starts with our real self as the image and likeness of God corroborated and firmed up by the new life flowing from Jesus to be completed in the world to come. Unless we are prepared to completely reverse our outlook presently turned on to the world outside and return to our true self inside , we shall remain foreigners in the Kingdom of God!